Most guys would take delight in nothing more than laying back and enjoying the slow, sensuous feel of a pair of wet lips wrapped around their penises. However, going down is generally not a womanâ€™s favorite part of sex. Your girl probably has plenty of reasons to avoid giving you head, especially when you want her to swallow your cum. If taken on face value most of her reasons may seem valid, but in reality, they are just excuses.
Several times you will hear stories of women who love nothing more than to greet a man’s member with their lips, and you wonder why you donâ€™t get to date such women. Majority of women prefer not give blowjob or swallow cum because most men are unable to satisfy their expectations.
However, if you can live up to their expectations and give them the experience they aspire, you will see that they will stop making any excuses. In fact, their lust for oral sex would increase so much that soon you will be telling stories of women who are always ready to give you head and swallow your cum.
What Women Expect When a Guy Cums?
Allâ€™s well that ends well, is the phrase that can best describe a satisfactory oral sex experience for anyone. If you think that getting a hard erection is enough to make oral sex as delightful experience for your girl as it is for you, nothing can be farther from the truth.
For better or worse, most of the times our earlier sexual experiences shape a lot of our insecurities, pitfalls and deep inner fears about sex as adults. That said, to enjoy the world-class blowjob you so desire, you must understand that women have their own preferences.
What truly fascinates a woman about giving a blowjob is her desire to experience the warmth, smell and taste of a manâ€™s cum, and that too loads of it. Yes, a big load of delicious cum is definitely a major turn on for almost every girl, but by coming up short with some dribbling drops on her stomach isn’t going to help you in impressing any woman.
Why Do Women Want Guys to Shoot Loads of Cum?
The reason for a girlâ€™s craze for a long cum shot is almost the same as for a man. The visual of her manâ€™s cum all across her breasts is highly arousing for most women. Because of a lifetime of watching porn, most of us have an impressive spank bank of fantasy material. Therefore, when it comes to blowjobs, just like men, women also have their own fantasies.
Most women are fascinated with the male orgasm, so for them the more the better. It is a real turn-on for most women when a man is able to shoot a lot of cum. After all, everythingâ€™s better when youâ€™re both enjoying yourselves. Also, she gets something to boast about to her girlfriends. It is definitely worth it to you to ensure youâ€™re giving her the best shot at having a decent time down south.
Woman Consider Quality Cum as a Sign of Sexual Health and Manliness
Everybody knows that swallowing cum has many health benefits. Despite this most women restrain from swallowing cum because they know the difference between high quality and poor quality cum. When they witness an exploding ejaculation that throws at them thick, lovely smelling and luscious cum, they canâ€™t resist themselves from tasting it because they know its health benefits. However, when they see a dribbling, thin, and smelly cum, they just consider it to be a poor quality cum, which is improper for them to swallow.
Also, most women think that strength of a manâ€™s ejaculation and quality of his cum is a sign of his masculinity. They consider a man who delivers powerful ejaculation as more manly than others. Most men take great pride and satisfaction in marking their territory, and there is no better way to do it in sex than with an impressive cum shot on their womanâ€™s lovely parts.
Why are Women Obsessed with Explosive Ejaculation?
Although lots of women derive pleasure from feeling a loverâ€™s erection in their mouths, they mostly crave for an explosive ejaculation. Thatâ€™s because most women regard strength of ejaculation as an indicator of the pleasure a man would have experienced when she was giving him the blowjob. Many women say that they give blowjobs because their lover enjoys them immensely. Therefore, women consider explosive ejaculation as a sign of an ultimate orgasm.
As you can imagine, thereâ€™s a lot that goes into giving a great blowjob and a lot of it, for the woman performing the act on you, involves concentration. There are several variables for her to consider which can be as stressful for her as it is pleasurable for you. So the least she expects is for you to have a great experience. However, when she sees a dribble of cum seeping out of your penis, itâ€™s a big letdown for her as it seems like all her efforts were futile (Read: Tips for Ejaculating Farther and NOT Dribble).
Poor Quality Cum Can Ruin Your Oral Sex Life
The thing about oral sex is that when it works, it really works. For you and your girl, going down on one another separately or at the same time is one of the best ways to bestow pleasure upon each other. But while it can be really sexy, many times the girl just canâ€™t get her head in the game.
If like any other sexual escapades, you think that this is due to some personal chemistry issue then you may well be terribly wrong in assessing the problem. Ejaculation of poor quality sperm by men is the most prominent reason for women to not indulge in oral sex with their partners.
Always remember that in a relationship, to get what you want, you must satisfy your partnerâ€™s desires. Women enjoy to watch a man cum and tasting his juices further enhances their pleasure. Although most men are not gifted with the ability to shoot out large loads of cum, there are plenty of ways to increase the volume and thickness of your semen, which can help you cum bucket loads to rival Peter North.